im bi and people tease me!?

THIS IS A SERIOUS QUESTION! okay. my name is franz. i told some people that im bi and told them to keep it a secret. they're are not my friends. i just told them so i cood talk about men around them. but it spread! then all of a sudden kids in my class start saying words with "bi" in it like bicycle, bionicle, bible, biography, antibiotics, joe biden, or words that sound like bi like buy or bye. they use phrases like bye bye birdy. and stuff, now one day i got mad! in math i flipped the desk and pushed my bookbag onto the floor. i stormed out the room. my dean mr paulin talked to me the next period. then me and him appeared in french and they talked about it. then he took those kids who were making fun of me. they told him the truth. i actually threathned one kid that ima shoot them with a shotgun if word gets out and they told mr. paulin! that got them off the hook. they said they wont do it again and they got off the hook. no fair! thy should get in trouble! they should get suspened! no no no!!! people say i have anger management and guess what!!!?? im in honors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i like men but cant show it!! they dont tease me but i know they laugh on the inside!! what do i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????? i meant anger management issues*** but im the only one that acts like a girl! i love it. but no one else acts like a girl! and they kept saying "shotgun" to mock me because i threathened to shoot them and they thought i was kidding. these people are not my friends. ive told my friends and they kept it a secret but these people didnt! and they also say "im glad im not bi"

Public Comments

1. just forget them and pretend that it doesnt bother you at all! and hang out with your own friends
2. Well first off STOP acting like a child if you can make this decision of being bi Threatening to shoot someone is NO jOKe & you need some serious help if you get that mad over this. It was your decision to tell ppl you don't trust & the possibility of it getting out could & did happen. Your going to have to live with it.
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4. Don't let them get in your way, stand up to them and just put forward how upset they would be if you mocked them of their sexuality, everybody is different and that is just something you and everyone else have to except, you WILL find someone and you know it. And maybe some people you know come out of the closet, then ask them what they have to say for yourself :) good luck x
5. i hav a friend thats bi and i dont hav a problem wiv it, it actuali really kwl he so nice n easy 2 talk to. dont just ACT like you dont care just DONT care! :) if they are still so shallow n immature 2 b daft bout it let em jus make sure u spread their sh*t on the sly xD lol jokes (maybe..) but yeah try not 2 think bout it 2 much n laf along truth b told u'll b much happier n life acceptin urself than acceptin you
6. fag
7. are you happy with what you are if so then it does not matter what they think......or maybe they are and hiding by teasing you
8. PLEASE DON'T HURT ME!
9. I don't blame you for getting upset but threatening a kid is NOT appropriate. Threatening anyone with a gun, especially in school, is a serious matter. You're lucky you didn't get arrested or something. And I don't think you have anger management issues; you're just frustrated with the harassment. If you get harassed more, I would tell a teacher.. DON'T just get upset suddenly, or people will see your anger and think you have anger management issues. Talk to a teacher about the sexual harassment. Hopefully they can figure something out.
10. You should not have said anything. You took a chance and lost. Deal with it. If its too much for you = then change schools. Otherwise you should be happy, at least people know now, and if anyone else is BI now they know your BI. see where Im going with this?
11. Haha thats really funny!! You made the chose to tell people in the first place. I guess your bestfriends cant be trusted. SUCKS DOESNT IT???? hahahahahahah i peeeiddd my pants reading the words they said.
12. Well you shouldn't have told them you were gonna shoot them. I doubt that would make them any more likely to shut up. Just act like you don't care. And you can show it, just don't tell people who are mean enough to take the rip outta you. Why don't you look for a club/website/something like that, that you can join and talk about your problem with other bi people. Cause I'm not bi so I dunno how that feels. Just make out that you don't care what they think and they'll soon quit teasing you, once they stop getting a reaction. Also, learn to forgive and forget. It is unjust that the get no punishment, but don't get so worked up about it. Chillax.
13. right right calm down first of all it was a mistake to tell these people- if tehre not your friends how did you think you could trust them? im not being funny but it sounds like you may be doing it for a bit of attention. theres nothiing wrong with that i usd to be the same just next time think of the concequences to get over this just act cool around them, when they say stuff just completely blank them, when they see htis is having no effect they wll get bored and stop it, this works very well. As long as you show no reaction they will get bored and before you no it everyone has forgotton about it. good luck i hope it all goes well
14. Wow. People seriously have issues for judging someone orientation. It's your choice to like what you wan'na like, it can be a guy, a girl, or both. If people can't handle it, its their lost. People these days need to know to respect others, and being arses with those who are different. Being different is awesome. I just hate people who think everyone should be the same, do you know how plain and boring the world would be if we were all the same, no bis, no gays, no lez, no people who stand out, no people who are different, no people from different cultures? Ignore them, if they were your real friends they wouldn't care or give a shit. Sure they're akward now, but maybe later on they'll forget about it and stay as your friend, who knows? Then again, people are fked up these days... Hope it helped,
15. I'm pan lol.... thats a tough situation... A friend of mine is bi and she never hears the end of it. The sad truth is people won't accept it... EVER. You're best off going about your life by your own preferences, and try to keep it to yourself, with the exception of close friends. You dont have to keep it inside, but you also don't have to be too forward about it. Just try your best not to let it bring you down. At least you know yourself and you have the courage to go against the grain. They don't. They have nothing to but make fun of people. Theyre pathetic, that should make you feel good. But please don't threaten people, it only makes things worse. Theyre ignorant and unaccepting, it's not their fault. I can tell that you're smarter than them, so dont get down to their level. Theres no use. If you ever need anything, feel free to contact me. iesuka_itami@livejournal.com iesuka.itami@gmail.com and you can message me on here ;] Best of luck to you <33
16. first of all CALM DOWN like you said they are NOT your friends, so what do you care, ignore them. this may sound childish but remember the age old saying "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" take that ethos, act as if it doesn't bother you, then they will stop they only say that sort of thing to wind you up and get a reaction. if you ignore them im sure that they will finally grow up and leave you alone. one late note NEVER ever threaten someone and i mean NEVER it is known as threatening behavior and is a CRIMINAL offense. anyway good luck and btw there is nothing wrong with being Bi-Sexual i know several gay people and work with a bi-sexual person, and i am straight myself so dont think your abnormal because you are not. everybody is unique and special.
17. I am a 43 yr old happily married woman, I and married to a man. thing is I chew tobacco, at work, though i get called a dike. thing is be yourself. IT IS BETTER TO BE HATED FOR WHO YOU ARE THAN LOVED FOR WHO YOUR NOT there is nothing wrong with being bi... I have gay friends ask me about guys and girls life is to short to worry about what others say
18. Ok first thing! You need to be serious about this, saying that you are bisexual is a mature decision and you need to take it like a man. People will always judge you one way or another, and that’s not just sexual preferences, is everything, and everyone get’s it at any time in their life I think you shouldn’t have told people that weren’t you friends first. You should have told a friend is they are really friends they will accept you for who you are not by what you like. And I’m telling for experience.
19. Hold on there ... you are very angry. Also hurt at the betrayal of what you asked others to keep private. People make fun of those things that are different from them, especially if they have been taught by parents or the school system that being bi or gay is wrong. Of course, it's not wrong, its normal for you. You are born this way. And, there is nothing wrong with it. I would suggest that you seek out counseling from either your academic institution or look for a GLBT group in your area that can give you tools to better help you deal with ignorant and cruel behavior of others. Unfortunately, it is a common place thing in this world we live in and while its not fair that you have to have extra skills to deal with ignorant people, its a fact of life. So, get those skills early so that you can go through life proud of who you are and what you do, rather than have to worry about small minded people.
20. haha your stupid!!!
21. :) i think you should tell someone that can get them introuble. maybe that might work. So this really is not a good answer. I can't believe ther doing that to you. This is exactly why i would and could never admit 2 myself that im probably bi myself lol. So for now im just 'straight'.